To Cary:
I realise these days that you and I have not been having our regular chats and seeing who could be the sappier out of the two of us :P
I also realise that you are under a lot of stress. All that stuff you told me yesterday was an eye opener to me because I never thought of it in that way. I just thought your personal life was private and that's it. I didnt know that different situations required such different behaviours.
I just want to tell you hang in there. One day you will be free to be who you really are. And just know u can talk to me anytime.
:D