I just read a forward about men. I LOVE some of the points:

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. I believe this so much. No matter how hard you try to show a man that you are the woman for him, once HE doesnt believe it, crapaud smoke your pipe.

Don't settle. Nuff said!

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within. So true. My boyfriend made some changes in his life because he wanted to. No pressure from me. :D

Never borrow someone else's man.

I hope this helps someone who is reading it.