Maturity, understanding and a sense of right or wrong, time and place do not come with age nor do they come by being married,having children or attaining a university education.Some people lack the ability to look at things holistically and come to an appropriate conclusion.

I have never been one to be hesitant to admit that I am wrong, or am never afraid to see someone's else point of view.

"notorious for making oskell comments" so what? I should just be like "ok my feelings are hurt, but she always making oskell comments so I should let it slide."

How about," Ayanna, I guess you misunderstood what I said. Let me explain."

Imagine I am speaking to someone and she is insulting my bf left, right and centre..Did i get on like a bitch? No...I simply told her that I didnt like it and she stopped.
Simple.

*sigh*