Quality time

The 5 love languages are:
1) Quality time
2) Physical Touch
3) words of affirmation
4) Acts of service
5) gifts

My love language is the first one. Long talks with my boyfriend, chats online with my friends, actual emails. I like to know that my friends are willing to spend time with me. Of course I am understanding that as we get older, time is more scarce. But if someone takes a moment out of the craziness to spend with me, I feel loved.
Physical touch is cool, but I didnt grew up with a lot of hugs. Neither did I grow up with words of affirmation. People tell me nice things, but I does nothing for me because I believe people can always say 'good job' or 'you look nice'

My mother's love language is acts of service. I like when people do things for me, but I feel like I dont want anyone going out of their way for me because I dont want to be a burden.

Again I didnt grow up getting a lot of gifts, plus anyone can buy flowers and chocolates.

Take some time and figure out what your love language is!