Being in a relationship is tough work. I mean, you have to unlearn some of the habits you have in order for things to flow smoothly.

I am very happy in my relationship. But how I saw it was that if I told my bf I was sad, he had to know what to do to make me feel better. He should know when to listen, when to give advice, when to reassure. That is a lot of resposibility to put on one person.

What I intend to do now is to say what I need. Who would know better than me right?